Dear Angels: It is a quiet night at home. I’ve been thinking for
days, weeks about E and how I might best help her get through this tough
time of depression and anxiety and confusion about her directions in life. Can
you give me guidance on how to be all that I can be to her as well as to
myself?
As always, we are here to help. We are here to guide you and
to give you a glimpse of what non-physical reality perceives of physical
reality. You see, your physical reality is so different from our non-physical
“world.” In your physical world, you have bodies that concern you; you have
physical responsibilities and chores and jobs and “things to do,” places to be,
money to make, etc.
For us in the non-physical world, there is no rush, there is
no time, there is to urgency, there is no fear or hate or mistrust or
“must-dos.” There is love here, there is hope, faith, trust, patience,
goodness. We are peaceful beings. But we are beings. We do have consciousness.
We do have purpose. We do have intention. And so you see, we are much like you,
and yet we prune out the fuss and muss. We do not need bodies for learning.
But for you, the body is not only the temple of the soul, it
is the vehicle for your learning. So you must respect, honor, value and
appreciate what you have come to learn. For you and E, the lessons are
different, but there are junctures of connection, and in this instance
regarding what you seek guidance with, you are joining each other in learning
certain lessons.
For you, L, this is a time when the compassion of a
mother comes to the fore. You cannot see your child hurting inside and not feel
some sense of shared pain. And yet, you must try, because to see the healing
and the essential being that she is in her perfection is to give energy to that
which truly is rather than to give energy to that which truly is not.
In our highest self, we are the perfection of self that we
were created to be. E is a being of perfection, as you are, as all humans
are, as all beings are. We were created in the image of perfection of our
Creator.
So – see E in this light. See the perfection. See the
trajectory. See the essence. To focus on less is to give energy to that which
is an illusion of the physical mind.
This is not to say that the suffering of anyone is not real
to them. It is, and this is what makes for suffering. But the physical dimension
is a conjecture, a shared conjecture established over an uncountable period of
time. 500 billion years ago you began in the big bang. You evolved as a
consciousness. You created physical matter. Your thought created
dimensionality. You agree as a mass consciousness on this reality. But – this
does not mean that it is the reality of all dimensions.
So see the dimension of health and well-being in you both. Be joyful for the whole being that you are and that E is. Be ecstatic for the promise of healing and the energy of healing as it may sweep over you and her in waves, in blessings, in reality. You are both whole beings. See it and believe it and it shall be so.
For E, this is a time of coming to understand more about
the nature of chemicals and how we as humans are chemical beings. We thrive
when the chemicals of us and of our world—which we are a cell within the body
of—are harmonious. E is learning about the chemical nature of the human
body and it is an exciting phase of learning because she is understanding more
her power. Within each of us is the power to heal. What has evolved can
devolve. What has been created can be uncreated. What has been given birth to
can pass away. There is no stasis is health; there must be change. So E is
seeing change, and change is by its very nature infinitely exciting. To see
change and to feel change is to know that the powers of the universe are in
good working order, and that life is moving, AS IT SHOULD.
Now, a challenge for you both is to stay out of judgment.
E’s path is E’s path and truly it is a beautiful path that she has
asked you to join her in walking in this life. But still, it is her path of
choosing, and so therefore be gentle and kind and resort not to pressure or
control, for these energies will not produce the outcomes that you truly seek.
Another challenge for you both is to be joyful. Appreciate
the lessons that you have chosen to embrace, and see them as gifts from your
soul. Look at the marvelous lessons you are learning.
But how do I encourage her to be responsible and to assume more
responsibility?
This lesson can be learned more passively than actively at
this time. She has this time of low pressure in her life and she is absorbing
the energy of enthusiasm and exuberance that she sees within you for your job.
She is learning from what she sees. Be patient and know that each day for her
is a time of gain. She is making progress.
Thank you—I do see that, and I see the marvelous care that her
caregivers are giving her. I am grateful and delighted, but I guess impatient
at what seems a lackadaisical attitude.
Perhaps the attitude seems that way now, but as the fog
lifts, so will the spirits. Be patient and be there for her if she needs you.
But the best way to deal with this is to live your life as you wish, to find
your own joy, and know that your joy will always carry into the world for
others to feel. And their joy is for you to feel. It is reciprocal. So just be
a joy-hunter. Look under every rock and in every crevice for joy. Find it in
other people. Find it in your pets. Find it in books and in your media. Find it
in music and in poetry. Find it in your clothing. Find it in the song you sing.
Find it in your mind and on your breath when you awaken and when you go to
sleep. Let the seeking of joy be your sole purpose in life. And you will be
amazed the joy that comes to you. You will be astonished at the absolute
potency and perfection of the Law of Attraction. You will be delighted beyond
measure because you will know with absolute certainty that life is for living
with joy and anything less we must examine in the context of “what have I
created, and why.” YOU are responsible for your joy. Wait not for it to come to
you as a result of your plaintive prayers being answered. Rather, seek it out
with verve and vigor, and stop not for a moment until you feel it in your soul.
And then, THEN you will understand that joy only comes when you seek it out.
Life is for learning. This has always been true. The
philosophers of the ages have spoken of this forever. So understand that if
life is for learning, then your guiding spirit must present you with
opportunities to learn. You can support E in this great opportunity she has
to learn, trusting that her inner guidance is taking her in perfect directions.
Trust that your guidance is doing the same. There is nothing “wrong” with
learning. Illness, in and of itself, is a perfect vehicle for learning.
You see, you are feeling the joy as E begins to feel
more joy. Life is working for her as it is for you. You see the happiness that
she feels tonight because life is changing and she feels the thrust of change.
Change is the healing energy of spirit consciousness. We must change to learn,
and we must learn to change. Change is the blessing of evolution. We are
thankful for all that changes.
Now, sleep well tonight knowing that all is proceeding as it should and that you and E are united in the joy of change. She is part of your joy and you are part of hers. Trust in your unity and know that all is as it should be at this time.
Thank you so much. I see the truth of what you say and I do feel the joy of change within me and within E. It is a great joy to see happiness within her and to see her eyes sparkle. So very happy to see the sparkle. Good night and thanks again.
