Dear Angels of my Higher Self: Happy new year. Well, it is February
already and – I have some questions on the burner. I have been thinking a lot
about C and also about J and I am wanting to reach a quiet place of
resolution about the roles they’ve played in my life and about my own ability
to gently release attachment. I feel so motivated to move forward in my
evolution and I feel that these two men have served these purposes well, but I
would like to let go. Can you give me guidance on the best ways, the most
effective ways, to send them from my thoughts of consternation, with love and
kindness and appreciation?
Yes, we can help you. We can help you understand that you do
indeed have the power within you to create any change you wish in your life.
This change can be a mental change, it can be a physical change, it can be an
emotional change, and it can be a spiritual/sensory change. It can be all of
these changes at once. In truth, all change takes place in multiple dimensions,
but – you are wishing to be consciously aware of the changes to reap maximum
reward.
So let us, then, talk about how to be conscious of the changes. To release an attachment, and do it consciously, simply consciously want to release the attachment. As you want to release the attachment, you begin to shore up your desire with conscious action in your heart and mind. Believe that the change is possible and have a positive emotional connection to releasing the desire. Proceed happily in the direction of that which you want.
So what is it that you do want? What are you wishing for?
I am wishing for a heart filled with love at every turn. I am
wishing to be filled with optimism and hope and good cheer and never a thought
of resentment or bitterness.
Then focus on what you want. Focus on the change that you
aim for. Think, feel the wonderful feelings of what you’ve described. Think of
how you feel when you touch a baby’s hand, or when you are dancing happily, or
when you are looking in your daughter’s eyes, or when you are laughing with
your mother, or when you are in the company of your family members that you
cherish. Think of being in the warm sun on a beach with the vast ocean kissing
your feet. Think of the clear night sky on a summer’s evening, when the warm
air swirls around you and makes your mind tingle with appreciation. Think of
the best meals you’ve ever had, prepared with loving hands and shared with
those who have assembled for the privilege and joy of sharing company and
repast. Think of climbing a mountain in Austria with your loved ones, seeing
the magnificent vista of greenery and preserved nature and a cold cold beer
awaiting you inside the kitchen. Think of all that has ever brought you joy and
pleasure and a sense of connection with All That Is. And then resurrect these
feelings—the sensory memories, the knowings, the comforts, the peace, the sense
of all being right, all being perfect. And this, this will draw unto you all
that you wish for, all that you strive for, all that you believe is yours to
have in your mind of certainty.
Now, let us talk for a moment about certainty. When you made
the choices to come into relationships with C and J, you knew in certainty
in your soul and spirit that these relationships would serve you immensely well
in your path to growth. The soul does not take on that which will not serve
because the soul’s agenda is advancement—even if the advancement is a
devolution, which it can indeed be. But for you in these relationships, the
learning was, has been, profound. And therefore there is no loss; there is only
gain. Once again, only gain.
So be proud, feel grateful and thankful for the gifts of
growth that you have engaged in with C and J.
And as you give appreciation for the gains, you will see
that there is no need to “let go” or banish or make anything go away. In fact,
to wish away is to ask that which is wished away to draw nigh, for it is the
Law of Attraction that takes the objects of your attention and brings them
closer to be seen.
So your challenge, your goal in this endeavor is to simply
look at what you do want, not at what you do not want. Look at the night sky
and want it. Look at all the beauties that surround you, and Want Them. Want
them with gusto and certainty. And then sit back and enjoy the ride, for there
is nothing further to wish for once the wish has been wished. The Universe has
heard you. Now your job is to relish your moments, each moment, and believe in
your destiny.
And for what it’s worth, you can rest assured that C and
J will always hold you very dear, very dear indeed. They are your soul mates,
and as for C, he is your twin soul. You are one. Trust in your innate being.
Thank you, Angels. This is very helpful. I want to be an uplifter.
I want to be comfortable in my own skin. I want to be happy at all times. I want
to know myself and be an ethical, spiritual being. I want to be all that I can
be in body, mind, heart and spirit. Thank you forever more for guiding me and
sharing your wisdom with me. I am grateful and very happy that you are a part
of me.
We are indeed a part of you and we come to Man and to Earth
and to each soul who is open to us to share what we have learned. We are in
symbiosis as you on Earth give us the pleasure of sharing in expanding our
Universe. We, too, are grateful. Good night.
Good night. Thanks again.